Remember You Are Dust Text: Joel 2:12–17; Psalm 51; 2 Corinthians 5:20–6:2; Matthew 6:1–6, 16–212
- Father Paris Haines
- Feb 19
- 5 min read

Tonight, we come to church for something unusual.
We come to receive ashes.
Not a trophy.Not a ribbon.Not a reward.
Ashes.
A dark smudge on the forehead that doesn’t make us look successful or impressive—but makes us look marked. Mortal. Human.
And as the ashes are placed on our skin, we hear words that are as ancient as the faith itself:
“Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.”
These words do not flatter us. They do not entertain us.They tell the truth.
Ash Wednesday is not a celebration of how strong we are.It is a holy interruption—a day where God pulls us out of our busy, noisy lives and forces us to remember what we try very hard to forget:
That we are not permanent.That we are not in control.That life is fragile.That time is short.That our hearts are often far from God.
And yet… we are still loved.
1. Ashes Tell the Truth About Us
Ashes are what’s left after something has burned.
They are the reminder that everything we build, everything we cling to, everything we obsess over—eventually fades.
Our bodies weaken.Our accomplishments disappear.Our wealth passes on to someone else.Our reputations shift with the wind.
Ashes tell the truth we don’t like to hear:
You are not God.
We live in a world that trains us to pretend otherwise.
We pretend we can manage everything.We pretend we can fix ourselves.We pretend we can outrun death.We pretend we can fill our emptiness with achievement, pleasure, productivity, relationships, or distraction.
But Ash Wednesday tears away the illusion.
And this truth is not meant to crush us.
It is meant to free us.
Because until we accept that we are dust, we will keep trying to live like we are divine.
And it’s exhausting.
2. Ashes Reveal the Condition of the Heart
The prophet Joel speaks to a people who are religious, but not repentant.
And God says through the prophet:
“Return to me with all your heart… rend your heart and not your clothing.” (Joel 2:12–13)
In other words:Stop putting on a show.Stop acting spiritual.Stop dressing up your faith while your heart remains untouched.
Because God does not want religious performance.
God wants you.
Not your image.Not your mask.Not your church persona.Not your carefully curated goodness.
God wants your real heart—your wounded heart, your tired heart, your addicted heart, your angry heart, your grieving heart, your distracted heart, your stubborn heart.
This is what Lent is for.
Lent is not a season for pretending to be holy.
It is a season for being honest.
3. Jesus Warns Us: Don’t Turn Repentance Into a Performance
In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus says:
“Beware of practicing your piety before others in order to be seen by them.” (Matthew 6:1)
And He speaks specifically about fasting, prayer, and giving.
He says don’t make a show of it.Don’t use religion to earn admiration.Don’t use spiritual disciplines as a way to prove you’re better than someone else.
Because you can fast and still be proud.You can pray and still be selfish.You can give and still be empty.
You can even wear ashes and still be far from God.
Ash Wednesday is not about how we look on the outside.
It’s about whether we will let God do something on the inside.
4. Psalm 51: The Prayer We All Need
King David, after his great sin, prays:
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.” (Psalm 51:10)
Not:“Improve me a little.”
Not:“Help me hide this better.”
Not:“Let me feel less guilty.”
But:“Create in me a clean heart.”
Because David knows something we often resist:
Sometimes we don’t need advice.We need resurrection.
Sometimes we don’t need self-help.We need a Savior.
Sometimes we don’t need to “do better.”We need to be made new.
And Lent is the season where we stop pretending we can save ourselves.
We finally confess:“I can’t fix my heart, Lord. But You can.”
5. The Ashes Are Not Only a Symbol of Death
Now here is the surprising truth:
Ash Wednesday is not just about death.
It is also about grace.
Because the ashes are placed on us in the shape of a cross.
And that means the message is not simply:“You are going to die.”
The message is:“You belong to Jesus.”
The cross is a mark of ownership.
A reminder that even though we are dust, we are dust that God has touched.
Dust that God has breathed life into.
Dust that Christ has redeemed.
The cross says:Your sin is real, but mercy is greater.Your life is fragile, but your soul is held.Your death is coming, but resurrection is promised.
The ashes are not the end of the story.
The cross never is.
6. Paul’s Invitation: Now Is the Time
In 2 Corinthians, Paul says:
“Now is the acceptable time; now is the day of salvation.” (2 Corinthians 6:2)
Not tomorrow.Not when you get your life together.Not when you feel more spiritual.Not when you’re less busy.
Now.
Ash Wednesday confronts us with urgency.
Because none of us knows how many days we have.
And that sounds frightening… but it is also a gift.
Because it means we don’t have to waste our lives.
We can come home to God.
We can stop running.
We can stop numbing ourselves.
We can stop pretending.
We can stop carrying guilt we were never meant to carry.
7. What Are We Called to Do in Lent?
So what do we do with this season?
We repent—not in shame, but in honesty.
We pray—not to impress, but to connect.
We fast—not to punish ourselves, but to make room for God.
We give—not to earn credit, but to love others.
We simplify—not because things are evil, but because distractions are dangerous.
Lent is not about proving ourselves worthy.
It’s about admitting we are not—and trusting that Jesus is.
Conclusion: Come as You Are
In a moment, you will come forward and receive ashes.
And you may feel uncomfortable.
You may feel exposed. You may feel emotional. You may feel unworthy. You may feel like a hypocrite.
But here is the good news:
This is not a night for the perfect.This is a night for the honest.
Jesus did not come for those who have it all together.
He came for sinners.He came for the broken.He came for the weary.He came for the dust.
And He does not reject dust.
He resurrects it.
So tonight, let the ashes do their work.
Let them remind you that life is short.Let them remind you that sin is real.Let them remind you that you need grace.
And then let the cross remind you of the final word:
Not death.Not failure.Not shame.Not sin.
But Jesus.
And because of Him, even dust can rise again.
Amen.
Optional Closing Prayer
Lord God,we confess that we have sinned against Youin thought, word, and deed,by what we have doneand by what we have left undone.
We have trusted in ourselves instead of You.We have loved comfort more than holiness.We have sought approval more than obedience.We have been distracted, prideful, and forgetful of Your presence.
Tonight, we return.
Create in us clean hearts, O God.Renew a right spirit within us.Teach us to number our days,and to walk humbly with You.
As we begin this season of Lent,draw us closer to Jesus Christ,who bore our sin,conquered death,and offers mercy to all who come.
We are dust, Lord—but we are dust marked by the cross.
In the name of Jesus,Amen.
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